Month: October 2019

The word "ableism" is used an awful lot these days, but do you know what it actually means? An "ableist" is someone who holds discriminatory views about people with both physical or learning disabilities, often of the opinion that they need to be "fixed". But where did ableism come from? Where did it start? I'm [...]

I often sit and read arguments online about whether or not it is wrong to go through the grieving process when a child is diagnosed with a disability. It saddens me so much as what I often see are parents desperately trying to understand what is happening around them whilst being penalised for having any [...]

Recently I was accepted on to a healthcare study by the NHS. I'd been suffering chronic back pain since being pregnant with kiddo, and six years on I still hadn't managed to improve it. I met with the researchers and the first thing they asked was, "what have you been told about your back pain [...]

Since I started to self identity as a parent carer 4 years ago, one thing has astounded me more than most, and that's how quickly things can change. On the left was me just over a week ago. Yes I'm totally sleep deprived and wearing a lot of make up, but I was stable. A [...]