Moving from survival to our new normal.I posted on social media about how my brain has been in shut down. It's protecting itself from threat. For a finite amount of time this is of course absolutely fine for an adhd brain, but after a while it leaves you feeling low that you're achieving nothing. You're [...]
Accepting limitations is not a weakness…
Accepting your limitations isn't a weakness, it's quite the opposite.As lockdown has continued I feel as though layers and layers of masking, expectation, self protection and my own false impressions of myself have slowly been stripped away. It's a strange feeling, the world has never provided me with an opportunity like this before. An opportunity [...]
The indirect risk of Coronavirus…
Just because you agree with a decision, doesn't mean you can't be scared about it too.By 7pm on Monday, McDonalds will close all its restaurants and drive thrus. Many people will have no clue why this terrifies me, but some of you will totally understand.Social distancing is not new to our family. We've been doing [...]
The importance of a morning routine.
One of my new years resolutions was to learn more about what makes me tick. So far the learning curve is pretty steep...During a term time week my morning routine is shit hot. I know what I need to do and in what order and once 9.30am comes I feel my whole body relax. If [...]
Why my house is never tidy…
Some of you may have seen in my stories recently that I watched a webinar on the ADDitude website about how to conquer clutter in the home when you have ADHD. It was by the fantastic Linda Roggli and was the first time I had come across her and quite frankly, she blew my mind!Being [...]
Another diagnosis journey begins…
Today I announced on social media that I will be taking on my own diagnosis journey this year (and likely next year and maybe the year after depending on waiting lists). Last month I had the stark realisation that I have ADHD. I felt my brain explode as all the pieces of my life fell [...]
Why we live in an inherently ableist world.
The word "ableism" is used an awful lot these days, but do you know what it actually means? An "ableist" is someone who holds discriminatory views about people with both physical or learning disabilities, often of the opinion that they need to be "fixed". But where did ableism come from? Where did it start? I'm [...]
Is it wrong to grieve when your child receives a diagnosis?
I often sit and read arguments online about whether or not it is wrong to go through the grieving process when a child is diagnosed with a disability. It saddens me so much as what I often see are parents desperately trying to understand what is happening around them whilst being penalised for having any [...]
Prognosis: is it mind over matter?
Recently I was accepted on to a healthcare study by the NHS. I'd been suffering chronic back pain since being pregnant with kiddo, and six years on I still hadn't managed to improve it. I met with the researchers and the first thing they asked was, "what have you been told about your back pain [...]
When do I get to feel safe?
Since I started to self identity as a parent carer 4 years ago, one thing has astounded me more than most, and that's how quickly things can change. On the left was me just over a week ago. Yes I'm totally sleep deprived and wearing a lot of make up, but I was stable. A [...]
